Over 15 years ago, I lost my cat, Toulouse, to kidney failure. I was heartbroken, but eventually I headed to the SPCA in Houston and adopted a furry black kitten with gray sideburns that we named Disco.
Disco was shy with strangers, but he was very affectionate toward his family. One of his quirkier habits was carrying around soft toys while yowling. He would often bring the boys' stuffed animals into my bed - I'd be ready to go to sleep at night and would find a collection of small stuffed toys piled on the comforter.
This is Disco with Reid, when he was a baby, on the changing table. The blessing in Disco's passing was that he'd enjoyed good health the past 15 years. He lost some weight last summer, but I switched cat food and he put it back on.
So the other night while Paul and I watched a movie and I suddenly noticed Disco missing, I sent Paul to look for him. He was always right there with us in the evenings, requesting affection. Paul found him on the cat tower, and it seemed he had died in his sleep. Although I didn't get to say goodbye this time, I was thankful that I didn't have to watch his health fail and that he seemed to have passed so peacefully.
We buried him the next morning before Pierce left for school. This came home in his folder from school later that day.
Talk about breaking a Mom's heart. Disco was a loving member of our family, and he'll be missed.
It is heartbreaking when we lose one of our friends and that's a hard lesson for little ones to learn. Still, I can't think of anyone better than you to help these loving little boys you're raising to learn it.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. You can tell he was loved by everyone in your family.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about Disco. The loss of a loved pet is never fun, but as you said, at least it was peaceful and in his sleep, with no suffering. I'll keep your family in my prayers!
ReplyDeleteLisa so sorry about disco ! Hope you have a great day !
ReplyDeleteOh, Sweetie... so sorry for your loss of Disco. He sounded like the perfect cat. I'm glad he passed while on his tower, probably where he felt safe to just lie down and go on to kitty heaven. Sending you a very warm hug today and to the boys as well. :(
ReplyDeleteOh this made me cry poor Pierce I am sorry Lisa. Hugs You gave hmi a wonderful life. Hug B
ReplyDeleteYou brought tears to my eyes. I always hated losing my pets... HURTS!!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry Lisa!!
For what it's worth, it's good that Pierce recognized Disco as a part of your family. It's all good. xo
ReplyDeleteOh, boy. :( I'm so sorry about Disco. It's always so sad to lose a furry friend, especially one as wonderful as Disco.
ReplyDeleteOh, I am so sorry to hear about your kitty!
ReplyDeletePets are such a blessing, it is so hard when they pass.
Aww :( It is sad when we lose a pet, and I'm sorry to hear it.
ReplyDeleteSo very sorry for your loss, it is hard to lose a faithful friend like that. The picture Pierce drew would have broken my heart too!!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about Disco. It is so hard to lose our best friends. He sounds like he was very sweet. I'm glad that Pierce was at least able to get his feelings out on paper. ((HUGS)) to all of you....
ReplyDeleteGosh I am so sorry. I didn't know your cat was named Disco. sandie
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. Pets become family members, so when they pass, the hurt is the same. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteOh Lisa, so sorry for your loss. Disco sounds like a wonderful kitty. Do you know the book "the Tenth Good Thing About Barney" by Judith Viorst? It helps.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry. I know how hard it is to lose a beloved pet.
ReplyDeleteLisa, I'm so sorry to hear about Disco. It sounds like he was a wonderful part of your family, and he will be missed.
ReplyDeletePierce's picture broke my heart too:) Hugs!
Lisa, I"m so sorry. I know how much it hurts. Shedding some tears for you and your family. Disco was lucky to have you.
ReplyDeletewhat a beauty. truly a blessing he died in his sleep! i would wish that for all my pets!
ReplyDeleteBaby girl, I am sorry for your loss...it is sooooo hard to loose a beloved pet. Hugs...:)JP
ReplyDeleteA blessing that he did not suffer and went at the time of his own choosing. You have my deepest sympathies and condolences on the passing of Disco. he looks like he was a very friendly & fuzzy cat.
ReplyDeleteYou gave him so many good years, by rescuing him from the shelter.
Vic303
Lisa - I am so sorry to hear about Disco. It is so hard to lost a pet because they really are part of your family. So sorry :(
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry! And oh my gosh the picture, I am really crying now, it is so sad, and he is so expressive. Not saying good-bye is s mixed blessing isn't it? But what a shock for everyone. I am so glad you did not have to see him suffer and he went peacefully. He brought you gifts and put them on your bed, how sweet is that? I love the picture of Disco & Reid!!!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your familys loss. It is hard not to say good bye. I am glad he did not suffer.
ReplyDeleteOh no, Lisa. I am so sorry. That drawing would have brought me to tears. It is so hard to lose beloved members of the family :( You'll be in my thoughts!
ReplyDeleteOh Lisa, I am so sorry. Disco will be missed. The kids will miss him also... I had a cat for many years (Snowball) when I was young. When I went away to college, Snowball died that year. It was hard to go home and not look for him...
ReplyDeleteGod Bless.
Hugs,
Betsy
I'm so sorry, Lisa. You know I so know. Sending you love and hugs. To you all. :*(
ReplyDeleteIt is sorry to hear that. But it is good that it died without pain.
ReplyDeleteMy dear Lisa...
ReplyDeleteMy heart is so heavy for you. I know how much I love my cat and Disco was a beautiful member of your family. I'm am sending you lots of love and hugs, my friend. I am so sorry.
so sorry about Disco. There will be an empty spot in yalls home.
ReplyDeleteAww, what a sweet drawing! I'm sorry about your cat.
ReplyDeleteHeartbreaking story for your son with his picture.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is always so difficult.
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss :(
ReplyDeleteOh, Lisa, I'm so sorry. I'm glad he passed peacefully and you had so many years to show him you loved him.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry, it's so hard to lose a pet. :( At least he passed peacefully.
ReplyDeleteOh, so sorry to read about the loss of your cat. And the drawing is so sweet. :-(
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